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I view it as an assault on the institution of marriage


Statistics show that straight people have done a pretty good job of assaulting the institution of marriage for decades. 
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I view it as an assault on the institution of marriage


Statistics show that straight people have done a pretty good job of assaulting the institution of marriage for decades. 


The problem comes down to this,  A marriage to the government is a civil union.  It really ought to be put that way.  I agree with the previous poster that the church ought to have Marriage.  The government stole it from the church, then put law behind it.

I personally don't like the Idea of even churches marrying same sex couples.  That being said, marriage should be between the couple, their church and God. 

For the state it is a civil Union, period.

I also seem to remember a study some time ago, that stated that marriages done in a church, with pre marriage counseling, and the works, Lasted longer than most "Justice of the Peace" ceremonies.
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I view it as an assault on the institution of marriage


Statistics show that straight people have done a pretty good job of assaulting the institution of marriage for decades. 


The problem comes down to this,  A marriage to the government is a civil union.  It really ought to be put that way.  I agree with the previous poster that the church ought to have Marriage.  The government stole it from the church, then put law behind it.

I personally don't like the Idea of even churches marrying same sex couples.  That being said, marriage should be between the couple, their church and God. 

For the state it is a civil Union, period.

I also seem to remember a study some time ago, that stated that marriages done in a church, with pre marriage counseling, and the works, Lasted longer than most "Justice of the Peace" ceremonies.


So people, who weren't married in a church, shouldn't be called married couples either? 
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I view it as an assault on the institution of marriage


Statistics show that straight people have done a pretty good job of assaulting the institution of marriage for decades. 

That's just an attempt to muddy the watters and doesn't address the issue. If you think I am going to defend divorce and what has gone on in this country the last 40 years, you are wrong. I think it is disgusting. But that has nothing to do with the issue.

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That's just an attempt to muddy the watters and doesn't address the issue. If you think I am going to defend divorce and what has gone on in this country the last 40 years, you are wrong. I think it is disgusting. But that has nothing to do with the issue.


It was a 'tongue-in-cheek' comment...hence the smiley.  But if you are going to force me to be serious, I do not believe that marriage is an 'institution'.  My wife and I haven't been together, 20+ years, because of a little piece of paper.  All that little piece of paper does is give us certain legal rights.

But that's just my opinion.  Your mileage, obviously, will vary.
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SAN FRANCISCO — The American Civil Liberties Union, Lambda Legal and the National Center for Lesbian Rights filed a writ petition before the California Supreme Court today urging the court to invalidate Proposition 8 if it passes. The petition charges that Proposition 8 is invalid because the initiative process was improperly used in an attempt to undo the constitution's core commitment to equality for everyone by eliminating a fundamental right from just one group — lesbian and gay Californians. Proposition 8 also improperly attempts to prevent the courts from exercising their essential constitutional role of protecting the equal protection rights of minorities. According to the California Constitution, such radical changes to the organizing principles of state government cannot be made by simple majority vote through the initiative process, but instead must, at a minimum, go through the state legislature first.



(SAN FRANCISCO) — The California Attorney General, Equality California, and the nation's leading LGBT legal groups agree that the marriages of the estimated 18,000 same-sex couples who married between June 16, 2008 and the possible passage of Proposition 8 are still valid in the state of California and must continue to be honored by the state.
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This is just a desperate attempt by people who have no respect for the will of the people to get what they want no matter the cost to our social fabric -- to deny the basic right of the people to vote their conscience on this issue would be a gross violation of the rights of the people.

I think everyone needs to respect the decision of the people in this case and move on just as we always do after elections. Prolonging this with meritless lawsuits does not help.

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Statement By Andrew Pugno, General Counsel of ProtectMarriage.com
November 05, 2008

By Andy Pugno

“The lawsuit filed today by the ACLU and Equality California seeking to invalidate the decision of California voters to enshrine traditional marriage in California’s constitution is frivolous and regrettable. These same groups filed an identical case with the California Supreme Court months ago, which was summarily dismissed. We will vigorously defend the People’s decision to enact Proposition 8.

This is the second time that California voters have acted to define marriage as between a man and a woman. It is time that the opponents of traditional marriage respect the voters’ decision.

The ACLU/Equality California lawsuit is completely lacking in merit. It is as if their campaign just spent $40 million on a losing campaign opposing something they now say is a legal nullity. Their position is absurd, an insult to California voters and an attack on the initiative process itself.

The right to amend California’s Constitution is not granted to the People, it is reserved by the People. The Supreme Court has repeatedly acknowledged the reserved power of the People to use the initiative process to amend the Constitution. For example, when the Rose Bird Court struck down the death penalty as a violation of fundamental state constitutional rights, the People disagreed, and in the exercise of their sovereign power reversed that interpretation of their Constitution through the initiative-amendment process. Even a liberal jurist who vehemently disagreed with the People’s decision on the death penalty, Justice Stanley Mosk, nevertheless acknowledged the People’s authority to decide the issue through the initiative-amendment process.

It should also be noted that the ACLU recently made this same “constitutional revision” claim in a nearly identical matter in Oregon and it was unanimously rejected. The claim was made under almost identical provisions of the Oregon State Constitution, against an almost identical voter constitutional amendment which read, “…only a marriage between one man and one woman shall be valid or legally recognized as a marriage.” The Court of Appeals of Oregon unanimously rejected the ACLU’s “revision” claim. (Martinez v. Kulongoski (May 21, 2008)  --- P.3d----, 220 Or.App. 142, 2008 WL2120516).

The coalition that has worked so hard for the past year to enact Proposition 8 will vigorously defend the People’s decision against this unfortunate challenge by groups who, having lost in the court of public opinion, now turn to courts of law to pursue their agenda.”
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And they want us to accept their position. NOT this little black duck, ever.

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The proponents of Prop 8 claim they want to 'protect marriage'.  Seeing as 50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second and 74% of third marriages end in divorce, what exactly are they protecting?

Marriage, despite what some people believe, is a legal contract between two people.  Equal protection under the law, means EQUAL protection for everyone...not just those whose lifestyle you approve of.



Actually, marriage is a religious ceremony, civil marriage came along after the fact.  And, marriage is for the purpose of procreation according to most religions.  Therefore, gay "marriage" is an oxymoron.  Gays cannot procreate with each other.  That said, I have no problem with "civil partnership" or a similar term that gives them the same kinds of protections one gets from marriage insofar as medical decisions, financial decisions, and property rights are concerned.  But it ain't marriage.
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I view it as an assault on the institution of marriage


Statistics show that straight people have done a pretty good job of assaulting the institution of marriage for decades. 


The problem comes down to this,  A marriage to the government is a civil union.  It really ought to be put that way.  I agree with the previous poster that the church ought to have Marriage.  The government stole it from the church, then put law behind it.

I personally don't like the Idea of even churches marrying same sex couples.  That being said, marriage should be between the couple, their church and God. 

For the state it is a civil Union, period.

I also seem to remember a study some time ago, that stated that marriages done in a church, with pre marriage counseling, and the works, Lasted longer than most "Justice of the Peace" ceremonies.


So people, who weren't married in a church, shouldn't be called married couples either? 


Realistically, no.  I have always believed that marriage is a church institution.  My wife and I would never even have considered a marriage without the blessing of God, and I am sorry, a Justice of the peace is not a minister (preacher, pastor, etc), in most cases.  It would solve a lot of problems to.  The government wouldn't have to define a marriage at all.
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I view it as an assault on the institution of marriage


Statistics show that straight people have done a pretty good job of assaulting the institution of marriage for decades. 


The problem comes down to this,  A marriage to the government is a civil union.  It really ought to be put that way.  I agree with the previous poster that the church ought to have Marriage.  The government stole it from the church, then put law behind it.

I personally don't like the Idea of even churches marrying same sex couples.  That being said, marriage should be between the couple, their church and God. 

For the state it is a civil Union, period.

I also seem to remember a study some time ago, that stated that marriages done in a church, with pre marriage counseling, and the works, Lasted longer than most "Justice of the Peace" ceremonies.



Exactly right.  My parents were married 59 years before my dad died; my maternal grandparents for over 60.  It certainly wasn't all wine and roses, but their vows were given in a church.  Most of the people I know who are married in church don't get divorced.
John

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