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I wanted also to provide some select quotes from the extensive German magazine article from 2005 which largely backs up my claims about the reluctance of the Muslim community (at least that in Germany) to confront the issue of honor killings (and other abuses of women).

This goes directly to my concerns about the continuation of deplorable cultural practices of Muslims being widespread in the west:

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The enraged school director not only sent a letter home to parents, but also to teachers across Germany. The letter ignited a media fury. Less known, however, is that the letter also hit a nerve among educators. "Teachers from across the country wrote back saying they had had similar experiences," Boehmecke said. They reported Turkish boys taunting Turkish girls who don't wear headscarves as "German sluts." "That's the part no one has written about. Clearly there is huge potential for similar violence across Germany," Boehmecke said. "Not just in the big cities, but all over. It's a problem many politicians haven't been willing to face."


This goes directly to my comments about PC being a factor in this issue:

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"People were afraid they would be called Nazis if they dared to bring up issues of human rights in the Turkish community," said Serap Cileli, a Turkish author and filmmaker who at 15 was forced into an arranged marriage.


This goes to my point about why the issue of women's rights doesn't get the attention it deserves -- i.e. many of these women are afraid to comment about their mistreatment:

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Plus, she said, laws don't take into account the psychological terror under which the women live. "These girls are frightened for their lives," she said. "If they do manage to get away, it would be an illusion to say the girls would run to the police." Besides, laws only cover civil marriages -- not religious ones. In many cases, families force their young daughters into Muslim weddings at very young ages (sometimes as early as 12 years old) and then only unite the couple civilly when the girls turn 18.


This section directly addresses my concerns about many Muslims not seeing anything wrong with their cultural practices:

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Though subtle, evidence of the seclusion in which religious Muslim women live in Germany abounds. Turkish tea rooms are often packed with men, while women are often at home caring for children. They rarely can be seen on the streets alone after dark. At a memorial vigil held a few weeks after Hatin's death, a mere 120 people showed up. Almost none were Turkish. In fact, most were from a lesbian and gay organization that -- outraged by the crime -- organized the make-shift ceremony.

The ceremony underscored another disturbing reality: It is often not the Muslim community that first expresses outrage over how its women live, but those on the outside. "It's often very frustrating for us that more doesn't come from within," Boehmecke said. "We've been trying to bring attention to the plight of women for years, but with little success."


I hope these quotes highlight my argument about this very important issue. These are not my thoughts or comments but rather those of a journalist.

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This quote addresses directly the issue of honor killings and the reluctance of Muslims to step up and condemn this heinous practice:

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So far, the Turkish community has been sluggish in its response to such data and even to the question of honor killings. But last week -- about three weeks after Hatin's death and under heavy pressure from activists -- the Turkish Association of Berlin and Brandenburg held a round table discussion about the plight of Muslim women. At the talks, the group issued a 10-point plan calling for a "zero tolerance" stance on violence against women and encouraged other Turkish and Islamic organizations to "actively recognize" and address the problem.


This quote goes directly to the issue of how widespread arranged marriages are:

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Astonishingly, the first extensive data the German government collected about the lives of Turkish women was published last summer, as part of a study done by the Ministry for Family Affairs. The study showed that 49 percent of Turkish women said they had experienced physical or sexual violence in their marriage. One fourth of those married to Turkish husbands said they met their grooms on their wedding day. Half said they were pressured to marry partners selected by relatives and 17 percent felt forced into such partnerships.
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John Glenn (DEMOCRAT) said this ----- It should make us all think a little:

...

John F. Kennedy (DEMOCRAT) started the Vietnam conflict in 1962.
Vietnam never attacked us.

...



The American War (as it was and is called in Vietnam), began in 1959, two years before Kennedy took office as President. There were 800 American "advisors" in Vietnam in January 1959 when the "armed struggle" began, escalating the assassinations of South Vietnamese government officals to outright war. The Americans were being shot at by invaders from the north, during the Eisenhower administration.

President Kennedy increased the number of advisors from 800 to 16,300 in 1961, well after the Republican administration dedicated American troops to replace the French.

Yes, Democrats often are in power when we go to war.

But who was in charge when Grenada was invaded? Gee, Ronald Reagan was President in 1983.

And who was in charge when Panama was invaded? Gee, George Bush was President in 1989.

I call Glenn's a limited view of America's action in creating wars.
If it wasn't for bad taste, I wouldn't have no taste at all.

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Two books on Honor Killings:

Reclaiming Honor in Jordan: A National Public Opinion Survey on "Honor" Killings

'Honour': Crimes, Paradigms and Violence Against Women

The second link has a description of the book which highlights my feelings well:

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It seeks to highlight a human rights based framework in seeking to address "crimes of honour" rather than taking a culturally relativist approach


Culturally relativist is a code word for PC -- i.e. all cultures have bad qualities so how dare we crticize...sound familar?
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This is an opinion piece by a Muslim who argues against honor killings and urges people in his community to confont the practice. I applaud this kind of self-criticism -- is he condemning his own culture? Hardly he's making the same point I was....

VIEW: Truth and denial —Farrukh Saleem

Within a few hours Aqsa was no more. Her life was strangled out of her. Muhammad’s beautiful baby is no more — she died from neck compression. Aqsa is dead; she can wear a scarf no more; can go to the school no more. Aqsa can change into jeans no more; she can breathe no more

Sixteen years ago, God endowed Muhammad Parvez, a cab driver in Canada, with a beautiful baby-girl. Muhammad named her Aqsa Parvez. Eleven years ago, Aqsa started school. For the past few years, Aqsa had been leaving home every morning wearing track pants and a headscarf, headed for Applewood Heights Secondary School. Once inside school premises, Aqsa would routinely remove her scarf and change into jeans.

A year ago, Muhammad took a passenger to Applewood Heights Secondary School. Perchance, he spotted Aqsa without her headscarf. Since that day, a year ago, Aqsa had been showing up at school with bruised arms. At 8 am on December 10, 2007, the police received a telephone call from a man claiming to have killed his daughter. The police rushed Aqsa, suffering from life-threatening neck injuries, to Credit Valley Hospital. Aqsa, in critical condition, had to be transferred to the Hospital for Sick Children and put on life support.

Within a few hours Aqsa was no more. Her life was strangled out of her. Muhammad’s beautiful baby is no more — she died from neck compression. Aqsa is dead; she can wear a scarf no more; can go to the school no more. Aqsa can change into jeans no more; she can breathe no more. Did Muhammad use Aqsa’s scarf to strangle her? Would Muhammad Parvez go to hell or heaven?

The Royal Canadian Mounted Police has charged Muhammad with second-degree murder. (In Canada, murder can be first or second degree. First degree murder is “planned and deliberate; murder while hijacking an aircraft, sexual assault, murder during terrorist activity, murder while being associated with a criminal organization or while committing intimidation.” Second-degree murder is “all murder which is not first degree murder.”)

Honour killing is our export to Canada. Women who do not wear hijab are not virtuous. Hijab is a Muslim woman’s identity. Hijab is religion. Hijab is the sixth pillar. Hijab symbolises sexual modesty. The West is conspiring to crush Islamic identity. Fact or fiction?

Here’s a fact: Aqsa has been murdered. For us, denial is not an option. According to the United Nations Population Fund more than 5,000 women worldwide fall victim to honour killing. Denial is not an option.

According to the UN’s Special Rapporteur “honour killings had been reported in Egypt, the Islamic Republic of Iran, Jordan, Lebanon, Morocco, Pakistan, the Syrian Arab Republic, Turkey and Yemen”. Egypt is 90 percent Muslim, Iran 98 percent, Jordan 92 percent, Lebanon 60 percent, Morocco 99 percent, Pakistan 97 percent, the Syrian Arab Republic 90 percent and Turkey 99 percent. Of the 192 member-states of the United Nations almost all honour killings take place in nine overwhelmingly Muslim countries. Denial is not an option.

More recently, honour killings have taken place in France, Germany, the United Kingdom and Canada. Intriguingly, all these honour killings have taken place in Muslim communities of France, Germany, the United Kingdom and Canada. Denial is not an option.

Here’s another fact: Illiteracy and honour killings are correlated. Jacobabad District has a literacy rate of 23 percent, the lowest in Sindh. Jacobabad has the highest rate of crimes of honour; 91 honour killings in 2002. In illiteracy, next to Jacobabad are Ghotki and Larkana. Both Ghotki and Larkana have high rates of crimes of honour: 67 honour killings in Ghotki and 62 in Larkana. Hyderabad, on the other hand, has a literacy rate of 44 percent and there were 5 honour killings in 2002. Denial is not an option.

On March 1, 2005, PMLQ and MMA legislators in our National Assembly joined hands and defeated a bill that was introduced to strengthen the law against honour killings. In November 2006, the Senate passed the bill with PPP and ANP supporting the bill while the PMLN abstained.

Another fact: Around 2.5 percent of humanity lives in Pakistan. But, nearly 30 percent of all honour killings reported from around the world are reported from Pakistan.

Is denial an option? Who will take the honour out of these killings? Who will expose the horror from under the hijab? Who will protect women from the laws of men?

Dr Farrukh Saleem is an Islamabad-based economist and analyst
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Quoting Srehtims:
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John Glenn (DEMOCRAT) said this ----- It should make us all think a little:

There were 39 combat related killings in Iraq in January.  In the fair city of Detroit there were 35 murders in the month of January. That's just one American city, about as deadly as the entire war-torn country of Iraq.

When some claim that President Bush shouldn't have started this war, tell them the following:

FDR (DEMOCRAT) led us into World War II.

Germany never attacked us; Japan did.  From 1941-1945, 450,000 lives were lost ... an average of 112,500 per year.


I'm a little confused - is John  Glenn (Democrat) attacking the Democrat's as war mongers and defending the Republicans?

And is he suggesting that America should never have declared war on japan after they were attacked (by Japan)?
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Not at all, Pauls, he was drawin a parallel argument between the argument used stateside "Iraq didn't attack us...Afghanistan did., which is also a misnomer of it's own. I won't get into the whole thing about which party is a war monger or not, i think it's a foolish discussion, using the term war monger is also foolish. No one wants war, but fighting becomes necessary...I know that historically appeasement and talking to the enemy has never worked. I also know that while you can never trust a politician from any party, dictators are whole different issue, they are perhaps the most honest people on the planet. Why? Because they know that they can tell everybody exactly what they are going to do, and no one will pay any attention to them or believe them until they do it. Every despot has historically viewed attempts to appease and talk as signs of weakness. You can't reason with a rabid dog, there is only one thing you can do with him...unless you want to get bit.

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I think Srehtims' post is misleading.
If I'm correct, John Glenn only said this:
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There were 39 combat related killings in Iraq in January.  In the fair city of Detroit there were 35 murders in the month of January. That's just one American city, about as deadly as the entire war-torn country of Iraq.

Everything else is Srehtims' own words.
And VibroCount is right, the list is very selective in it's choice of conflicts.
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bbursiek

thank you for your information,

What it makes me think of is that it would be so great to have a woman president right now, dealing with these middle eastern countries, what a kick in the ass for them to give the most powerful job in the world to a woman, though i don't like any of the candidates, Hillary Clinton, knows more about what is happening than the other 2, but the republicans have managed to help themselves by voting against Hillary and pushed Barack Obama on top, i know this has happened cause my dad, who is a republican, went out of his way to vote in the democratic primary, the republicans are going to crush Obama, they can't wait.
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Another example of PC forces at work -- film exposes teachings at a radical mosque and the police official refers the films makers for "inciting racial hatred". This is exactly the kind of thing I was talking about earlier............state of denial indeed!

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A state in denial needs reality checks
By Alasdair Palmer
Last Updated: 12:01am BST 18/05/2008

It’s a failure easier to recognise in other people than in yourself – but everyone, if honest, will accept that they have occasionally fallen into a “state of denial”, that well-attested psychological phenomenon that consists in refusing to recognise the truth of a piece of information because it suggests that your own views are wrong.

That the failing is common does not justify it. It simply makes it all the more important that procedures for making decisions, especially by authorities, should carefully guard against it: people in a state of denial make irrational, stupid and oppressive choices.

The most charitable interpretation of the reaction of Anil Patani, the Assistant Chief Constable of West Midlands Police, to the Channel 4 documentary Undercover Mosque is that he was in a state of deep denial.

The programme recorded preachers at the Green Lane Mosque in Birmingham making remarks that were not only bigoted and full of hate but also bordered on incitement to murder. Abu Usamah, one of the main preachers, was shown saying: “Osama Bin Laden, he’s better than a thousand Tony Blairs, because he’s a Muslim”; “Allah has created the woman, even if she gets a PhD, deficient. Her intellect is incomplete”; and advocating that homosexuals should be “thrown off” mountains. Mr Patani’s reaction? To refer the programme makers to the Crown Prosecution Service for inciting racial hatred.

He also referred the programme to Ofcom, the TV regulator, sending out a press release as he did so. Mr Patani’s press release claimed that “those featured in the programme had been misrepresented” and that it had “undermined community cohesion”. Those claims were blatantly false, as the Ofcom investigation itself made crystal clear. But why on earth did Mr Patani make them?

He had no authority to censor the media, nor to assess whether it had done its job properly. Channel 4 had shown Abu Usamah the relevant parts of the programme before it was broadcast: he did not deny what he had said, nor did he try to get the programme prosecuted for being “misleading”. It was only Mr Patani who took that step. It is difficult to understand how Mr Patani could have persuaded himself that the programme makers were the problem – difficult until you recognise the power of the state of denial that he was in.

No context could make Abu Usamah’s remarks anything other than bigoted and hateful, something that should have been particularly obvious to Mr Patani, who had seen all 53 hours of film that had been shot in the making of Undercover Mosque. Now he and his force have been made to grovel, as well as pay out £100,000 to settle the libel suit that Channel 4 discovered was the only way to get West Midlands Police to stop claiming Undercover Mosque had distorted the views of innocent, peace-loving preachers. But then Mr Patani is by no means the only person in authority to suffer from denial on this topic.

His denial is very widely shared – which is why Mr Patani remains in his job, and why he won’t even be disciplined. The alarming truth is that much of Government policy towards radical Islam is based on Mr Patani’s delusion: if we pretend that radical Islamic preachers do not exist but are rather a creation of Islamophobic journalists, they will just go away. That sort of denial is extremely dangerous.

But since the procedures of Government decision-making fail to guard against it, our only defence against denial is programmes such as Undercover Mosque. Without that kind of check, denial would take over Government policy completely. And it is not difficult to imagine what a catastrophe that would be.


http://www.telegraph.co.uk/opinion/main.jhtml?xml=/opinion/2008/05/18/do1804.xml
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Murder in the Family: Honor Killings in America

When she was just 19, Sandeela Kanwal traveled from America to Pakistan for an arranged marriage to a cousin twice her age.

Less than six years later, she was dead — strangled — and her father, Chaudhry Rashid, was arrested by police as the suspect for what some have called an "honor killing."

After their marriage, Kanwal had lived in the United States apart from her husband, who remained in Pakistan. She was reunited with him in April at her family home in Atlanta, but he moved to Chicago days later, leaving her alone once again.

On July 1, Kanwal filed for divorce, a prospect her father, a 52-year-old immigrant from Pakistan, would not entertain. Investigators say that after an argument on the night of July 5, he strangled Kanwal with a bungee cord. He could not accept the "disgrace" a divorce or affair would bring on his family, according to police.

The United Nations estimates that as many as 5,000 women are murdered in such honor killings each year for offenses like immodesty or refusing an arranged marriage. They may be on the rise in the U.S., as seen anecdotally in Kanwal's death and a handful of other prominent attacks:
• Fifty-year-old Yaser Abdel Said became the focus of a massive manhunt after he allegedly killed his teenage daughters Sarah and Amina — for dating boys against his will. Relatives say he tried to marry off Amina in his native Egypt when she was 16, and he hasn't been seen since the girls were shot to death on New Year's Day.

• Zein Isa, a Palestinian terrorist who lived in St. Louis, was convicted of killing his daughter Palestina in 1989. Investigators say he was furious she had a black boyfriend, went to a school dance and got a job at Wendy's. Palestina's mother held her down as Isa plunged a 9-inch knife into his daughter's chest, actions the FBI picked up on a microphone as they investigated Isa for his terrorist ties.

• Waheed Mohammad, a 22-year-old immigrant from Afghanistan, was shamed by his sister, who he thought was a "bad Muslim girl." At his mother's behest, investigators say, he tried to "stop" his sister, stabbing her multiple times, though she survived and spoke to FOX News.

To see more on honor killings in America, watch FOX News' special documentary, "Murder in the Family: Honor Killings in America," airing 8 p.m. EDT Saturday, July 26, and 8 and 11 p.m. EDT Sunday.
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Murder in the Family: Honor Killings in America

When she was just 19, Sandeela Kanwal traveled from America to Pakistan for an arranged marriage to a cousin twice her age.

Less than six years later, she was dead — strangled — and her father, Chaudhry Rashid, was arrested by police as the suspect for what some have called an "honor killing."

After their marriage, Kanwal had lived in the United States apart from her husband, who remained in Pakistan. She was reunited with him in April at her family home in Atlanta, but he moved to Chicago days later, leaving her alone once again.

On July 1, Kanwal filed for divorce, a prospect her father, a 52-year-old immigrant from Pakistan, would not entertain. Investigators say that after an argument on the night of July 5, he strangled Kanwal with a bungee cord. He could not accept the "disgrace" a divorce or affair would bring on his family, according to police.

The United Nations estimates that as many as 5,000 women are murdered in such honor killings each year for offenses like immodesty or refusing an arranged marriage. They may be on the rise in the U.S., as seen anecdotally in Kanwal's death and a handful of other prominent attacks:
• Fifty-year-old Yaser Abdel Said became the focus of a massive manhunt after he allegedly killed his teenage daughters Sarah and Amina — for dating boys against his will. Relatives say he tried to marry off Amina in his native Egypt when she was 16, and he hasn't been seen since the girls were shot to death on New Year's Day.

• Zein Isa, a Palestinian terrorist who lived in St. Louis, was convicted of killing his daughter Palestina in 1989. Investigators say he was furious she had a black boyfriend, went to a school dance and got a job at Wendy's. Palestina's mother held her down as Isa plunged a 9-inch knife into his daughter's chest, actions the FBI picked up on a microphone as they investigated Isa for his terrorist ties.

• Waheed Mohammad, a 22-year-old immigrant from Afghanistan, was shamed by his sister, who he thought was a "bad Muslim girl." At his mother's behest, investigators say, he tried to "stop" his sister, stabbing her multiple times, though she survived and spoke to FOX News.

To see more on honor killings in America, watch FOX News' special documentary, "Murder in the Family: Honor Killings in America," airing 8 p.m. EDT Saturday, July 26, and 8 and 11 p.m. EDT Sunday.


Not only has he not been seen. One of the girls managed to call 911 on her cell phone, the whole killing was recorded as he shot her NINE times and her sister twice.

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Columbo:

Ah . . . Sorry to bother you Mr. Obama, Sir
 
Excuse me Mr. Obama, I mean Senator Obama, sir. Um . . . know you are busy and important and
stuff. I mean running for president is very important and . . . ah . I hate to bother you. I will only take
a minute ok, sir?

See, I have these missing pieces that are holding me up, and I was wondering sir,
if you could take time out of your busy schedule and help me out. You know, no big
deal, just some loose ends and things.
 
Hey, you have a nice place here! The wife sees houses like this on TV all the time and says boy she
wishes she had digs like this you know? Is that painting real? Really? Wow. I saw something like that in
a museum once!
 
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some details, I will get right out of your way. I want to close this case and maybe take the wife to
Coney Island or something. Ever been to Coney Island?
No, I didn't think so. .
 
Well, listen, anyways, I can't seem to get some information I need to wrap this up.
These things seem to either be locked up or  not available. I'm sure it's just some
oversight or glitch or something, so if you could tell me where these things
are . . . I . I . . . have them written down here somewhere . . oh wait. Sorry about
the smears. It was raining out. I will just read it to you.
 
Could you help me please find these things, sir?
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•  Your Columbia College records
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•  Your Harvard College records
•  Your Selective Service Registration
•  Your medical records
•  Your Illinois State Senate records
•  Your Illinois State Senate schedule
•  Your Law practice client list
•  A Certified Copy of your original Birth
  certificate
• Your embossed, signed paper Certification of 
  Live Birth
• Your Harvard Law Review articles that were
  published
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•  Your Record of baptism
I can't seem to be able to locate any...........
Oh hey . . listen! I know you are busy! Is this too much for you now?
I mean tell you what. I will come back tomorrow. Give you some time to
get these things together, you know? I mean, I know you are busy, so
I will just let myself out. I will be back tomorrow. And the day after. .
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