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DVD Profiler Desktop and Mobile RegistrantStar ContributorTheMadMartian
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Hello Unicus69,

That's very impressive 13+ years & getting paid to boot!


It wasn't a great paycheck, but it was a job I could do from home so it was worth the effort.  Unfortunately, a lot of companies are going to 'volunteer' moderators or 'in house' moderators.  I didn't want to do it for free and I didn't want to move, so I am currently out of the business.  But it was an interesting experience.

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Human nature is pretty much the same whether it's a forum, ball park, anywhere actually. You have all types from the smart guy to the bully etc. I suggest to you that many forums exist with moderation where order is, the norm., or it works. I would suggest that if you've had negative experiences, in moderation you, you should seek a forum that does work & try and mimic them. Copying something successful, is a good idea. Also (curious) why are so many forums being moderated & willing to pay, & well, this is the only one I know of where we collectively vote on good or bad.

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Yes, there are a lot of forums where there is order.  I think, however, you will find that they either started out with well established rules or went through some growing pains to get there.  That is what we are going through here.  Ken is trying to bring law and order to the wild west.  Will the 'point' system work?  Only time will tell, but it isn't unique to this forum.  I know of other forums that use the same type of system.  Please don't ask me for examples as I can't think of any off the top of my head. 
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I don't post very much, but I always read them. I have not always seen eye to eye with Skip on some things, But he has always been very helpfull in many ways. Like when I first got started with DVDP back at Intervocative in his own some what gruff way helped me become a better contriutor to this Database. Skip if your still monitoring this thread, Please come back. Your insight will and is missed by quite a few people.

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Hello Unicus69,

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Ken is trying to bring law and order to the wild west.  Will the 'point' system work?


This forum does not seem like the 'wild west' to me. In fact it seems really rather tame. In your vast experience I'll bet you don't believe this place to be the most rowdy? Usually a couple of troublemakers cause the majority of problem, monitor & take appropriate actions, they will learn to behave. Waiting for the bad stars to accumulate (before corrective action is taken) allows the flame thrower, several more posting opportunities, further spreading flames. A moderator should/would be all over the first hint of flames. The difference being, stars > smoke detector goes off > call the fire dept > fire dept arrives. Moderator, smoke alarm goes off > firemen on scene & observed the alarm sounding. Most likely outcome IMHO is chaos, star wars, unhappy members hurt feelings, abandon forum, realization of failed effort.

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Edit: Please don't get me wrong here.  I am not trying to bash Skip.  I am simply giving the other side of the coin.  While I can see why it could happen, I didn't want it to. 


sadly by the looks of it, skip left us


Why on earth do you persist in nagging about a users descision to do whatever?!?! Let people run their own course, and use your energy to improve the database instead! This thread is idiotic, to say the least! Whether you like Skip or not - his descision is his own, and not for us to debate!   


Just one question, if this post is idiotic, then why are you reading and posting to it?
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The system has done...

If I felt any better I'd be sick!
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I know your writing is not very good but to make a thread that is teetering on gloating about another member of our community's destruction is wrong.  I know I am going to get a ton of negative feedback, but I do not care.  Was skip crass? ABSOLUTELY!  Did he contribute to our community more positively than negatively?  ABSOLUTELY!  Look through the database sometime and see how many contributions he made.  You will find a lot.  I opposed the rating system from day one as I knew a person or persons on here would band together and go after people they had personality conflicts with.  To those of you congrats, move on to your next target.  To Ken please remove the reputation system and get us some moderators.


I disagree.  If you count the contributions that would have been made by the users he chased away, he's way in the negative.  A community needs to be newbie friendly to go anywhere.  Compare even the contribution help board on the notoriously abusive IMBD forums with here and you'll understand why I went away for two years, came back and found that it was the exact same twenty or so people on the site with apaprently almost no new members gained.


You know, I am starting to see a pattern here.  More than one person seems to believe that Skip is scaring customers away.  Now I know that in a case or two this is true.  If he was scaring as many people as some claim Ken would have to close up because there would be no money in it.  Also, I would rather Skip scares off some of the more inept people who jump on here and use this a platform for things that do not matter or questions which have been asked 100 times.  I can remember a certain argument about the headshot database.  Where he was 100% right but someone pushed and pushed with incorrect info until Ken stepped in.  I can remember 50 post about can I get a CD or game profiler.  I have seen Skip be a jerk, to me included.  However, I have seen him take things with with tact and grace as well, sort of like he has taken this whole topic.
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The system has done...



Rico, I just gave you a positive.  Because I don't care who you are, now that's funny...     
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I'm probably sounding like a hippie now, but lets all be friends. We all enjoy collecting movies...
Come on, group hug everybody
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You know, I am starting to see a pattern here.  More than one person seems to believe that Skip is scaring customers away.  Now I know that in a case or two this is true.  If he was scaring as many people as some claim Ken would have to close up because there would be no money in it.


You are seeing a pattern, because it is a fact.  If we go bact to the IVS days, quite a few people have left because of Skip...Ace was one of them.  A lot of the 'old timers' will tell you the same thing.  I could name names, but there really isn't any point.  Now, is it Skip's fault that they left?  Of course not.  Each person made that decision on their own.  They decided, on their own, that they didn't want to be treated the way he was treating them.

Btw, it isn't customers, it is forum users and potential contributors that have been 'scared away'.  Just a slight difference.

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Also, I would rather Skip scares off some of the more inept people who jump on here and use this a platform for things that do not matter or questions which have been asked 100 times.


I would prefer that nobody be scared off.  The fact that you think they are inept doesn't mean they deserve to be treated badly.  Everybody, even the ones who ask the question that has been asked 100 times, deserves to be treated with common courtesy.

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I can remember a certain argument about the headshot database.  Where he was 100% right but someone pushed and pushed with incorrect info until Ken stepped in.


I was that someone and Skip is 100% wrong.  Just because Ken agreed with him doesn't make him correct.  I checked with several lawyers on the issue, for unrelated professional reasons, and they all said the same thing.  I have a pretty good idea as to why Ken made that statement, but that is a conversation for another time.

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I can remember 50 post about can I get a CD or game profiler.  I have seen Skip be a jerk, to me included.  However, I have seen him take things with with tact and grace as well, sort of like he has taken this whole topic.


Nobody said Skip was all bad, quite the contrary, almost everybody has admitted that he does contribute some good things.  But, for a lot of them, those good things do not mitigate him being a 'jerk'...your word, not mine. 

If you want to look past that behavior, that is your right.  Just don't expect everyone to do the same.  It isn't going to happen.

On a personal level, I hate to see anybody leave...Skip included.  But we all have to make our own choices.

Edit:  Slight edit to add the word 'everyone' to the sentence above. 
No dictator, no invader can hold an imprisoned population by force of arms forever.
There is no greater power in the universe than the need for freedom.
Against this power, governments and tyrants and armies cannot stand.
The Centauri learned this lesson once.
We will teach it to them again.
Though it take a thousand years, we will be free.
- Citizen G'Kar
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And herein lies the problem, Unicus. From my point of view, I am treated far worse and put up with more stuff than I have ever given to ANY uiser. So be careful where you point your fingers. It is all to easy to fall into the trap of being judgemetal, Unicus, which is just one reason why I cast very few votes Positive or Negative, I am NOT qualified to judge another person or his behavior.

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Outta here

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It would take very little time to do some research on this forum to come to the conclusion that other than the Blu ray thread, almost without exception every thread that ever got locked by Ken or Gerri, or became a mud-slinging contest had Skip right in the middle of it.  I don't believe you could say that about any other single user.  Yes, many of the same users (including me) were also involved in many of those threads, but Skip was involved in virtually all of them.


I think the core reason for that is because he posts more and participates in more threads then anyone else.

I personally think skip not posting will be a bad thing. I dont have much of the same DVD's skip does, being from the R2 land and all. But since i registered here, skip has done nothing but helped me. Whenever i needed to know something, i knew i could just PM him and would always get advice. I dont agree with everything he says, especially when it comes to politics But these disagreements have never caused him to call names or anything else. If you try to provocate someone, dont be suprised if he'll be provoced.
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And herein lies the problem, Unicus. From my point of view, I am treated far worse and put up with more stuff than I have ever given to ANY uiser. So be careful where you point your fingers.

Skip


Nobody treated you of War Criminal, and YOU did for me.

That's why I left and stopped posting two monthes ago. So stay outside those forums as you said, except if you want to remain the "Liar Liar" you have ever been...
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Out of line and totally unacceptable comment and precisely the kind of abusive comments I am subjected toby moire than just you, Yves. But then you cry about it if I choose to respond in kind.

Skip
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Outta here

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You know for someone who is supposed to stop posting, he's probably posted more than 90% of the people who didn't stop.     

And sorry to say, but if he has 160 negative votes and still allowed to post 20+ messages a day, either he is immuned from the whole process already, or the bar is set so high that it doesn't matter how many negatives votes you get it's not going to matter anyway. 

Don't worry Skip fans, he's done this song and dance more than a couple of times. He's not going away, he would know what to do with himself, this is quite literally, all he has. He needs this attention.

Negative vote me all you want for saying it, it's the truth.
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From my point of view, I am treated far worse and put up with more stuff than I have ever given to ANY uiser.

If that is true - and I'm not saying that it is - did you ever stop to wonder why this is happening? If so many people here are jerks, why are they only targeting you, Skip?

Did you ever stop to think "Hm, maybe I'm part of the problem"?
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