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The 'state' should remain neutral.

California is currently neutral. It's currently legal for same-sex couples to marry in Californai. This proposition would force the state to become one-sided again.

We should all be careful when legislating morality for others as we may find ourselves in the minority view at some point and find our beliefs outlawed.


It is only legal for same sex couples to marry in California because of a judicial fiat that overturned the already stated will of the people. So your argument is not an accurate one -- the prop 8 vote is designed to put things back the way they were before a group of activist judges changed it.

Brian

There's nothing inaccurate about what I said. It's legal here. You may not accept how it became legal, but that's another issue.
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You are abolutely wrong in this assumption and your use of this kind of example surely shows your bigotry -- suggesting me and others like me some support stoning women is absurd.

Of course you do not support stoning, and that is not what I said. I said you support using religious dogmas to justify your oppinions - and hence I must assume you consider a religious dogma a valid reason to hold an oppinion? Guess what those people supporting stoning (which I am fully aware you are as much against as I am) use to justify their oppinion - they use a religious dogma. How exactly can we tell them that they are behaving wrong when they use the same argumentation that we do?
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The US constitution (which I support fully) would prohibit this kind of activity as an extreme violation of equal protection as well as other provisions about liberty and cruel and unusual punishment. I support people voting their conscience (using the Bible in your example) but I fully support the rights to individual liberty enshrined in our constitution even though those rights sometimes protect things I strongly disagree with or am offended by (such as you using your right to free speech to demonize religious people).

Brian

Again, no need to say you support freedom of speech and are against stoning - I fully accept that and do obviously agree.

EDIT: I now see I did type the opriginal post a bit too fast. I should not have used the sentence "without endorsing stoning infidel women in muslim countries.". What I tried to say was "without endorsing using religious dogma to justify stoning infidel women in muslim countries."

Sorry for the confusion!
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For me, this issue is quite simple.  I believe that homosexual activity is both unnatural and immoral; and I am far from alone.

Having the 'state' issue a license sanctioning an activity which a great many people believe to be immoral is simply wrong.

Please show me any other license that the government issues which promotes an activity that is considered immoral by so many.  The 'state' should remain neutral.

And please don't start throwing the homophobe word around.  I do not hate nor fear any living person.  In fact my brother happens to be gay, and I love him none the less for it.  I do however, fear for his immortal soul!


I am just spit balling for fun Hal.  Many people find Pornography immoral and wrong, I am not one of them.  However, in AZ nude dancers and porn stars who wish to work must carry an adult entertainment license.  Tucson attempted to pass the same law for topless dancers but it was defeated.  This means the state of AZ is sanctioning pornography.
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For me, this issue is quite simple.  I believe that homosexual activity is both unnatural and immoral; and I am far from alone.

Having the 'state' issue a license sanctioning an activity which a great many people believe to be immoral is simply wrong.

Please show me any other license that the government issues which promotes an activity that is considered immoral by so many.  The 'state' should remain neutral.

And please don't start throwing the homophobe word around.  I do not hate nor fear any living person.  In fact my brother happens to be gay, and I love him none the less for it.  I do however, fear for his immortal soul!


I am just spit balling for fun Hal.  Many people find Pornography immoral and wrong, I am not one of them.  However, in AZ nude dancers and porn stars who wish to work must carry an adult entertainment license.  Tucson attempted to pass the same law for topless dancers but it was defeated.  This means the state of AZ is sanctioning pornography.


Or hunting or selling alcohol.  Both of which many have opposition to.
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Quoting lmoelleb:

You are so offbase and bigoted here it is disturbing.

You seem to believe that your belief system (whatever it might be based on) is superior to mine because mine has its roots in my religious beliefs. Your belief system is presumably based on your own set of criteria and that's fine but your arrogance and condescension doesn't make your belief system anymore correct than mine.

Your comparisons are offensive and the last recluse of someone with a great deal of hatred in your heart. Whether you can see it or not you have much more in common with those despicable South African apartheid supporters than I do. You seek to prevent me from making my case by repeatedly referring to me in the most disgusting ways possible.

According to you I condone racism, stoning, etc.  --- LOL you are desperate 

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Of course I am trying to impose my views on you - that is not something I am hiding. I am always willing to impose my view that religious dogmas should not apply to anyone but those following the religion.


So there you said it you are trying to impose your views on me.....I thought you were against that...oh wait you are only against me imposing "my dogmas" on others -- not you imposing your dogmas on me. Because only religiously based belief systems are wrong and should be opposed. It is ok to impose your obviously superior non-relgious based system on me because it is better. 

Your absolute self-righteous belief in your own moral superiority is very troubling. In case you don't follow history the most brutal and violent regimes in history were composed of people (non-relgious) who sought to impose their superior view of morality on others - Communists and Nazis.

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Please explain to me (besides religious dogma as that can obviously not apply to people who do not share your religion) why this is any different.


I've already done that -- classfications based on race are clearly prohibited by our constitution and classifcations based on homosexuality are not. Furthermore there are longstanding reasons why marriage as an institution is protected in law (and not easily dissolvable) the care and rearing of children. Homosexual relationships are not capable of producing children and so are different under the law. Most marriage law in this country is designed around protecting the relationship with children. I can produce statements from african-americans denouncing the civil rights comparison between the rights of homosexuals with the rights of blacks that you are trying to make. They state it much better than I can.

Furthermore your question assumes that in order to be valid a law must have non-religious justifications that meet your approval before they can be valid in your moral code. I ask you to say what is the difference between gay marriage and bigamy, incest, bestiality, etc. using your own critieria -- keep in mind that it can't be morality of course because based on your definition any use of morality is wrong. Unless you are prepared to claim your moral compass is somehow more worthwhile than mine.

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Quoting hal9g:
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For me, this issue is quite simple.  I believe that homosexual activity is both unnatural and immoral; and I am far from alone.


Fair point, regardless of the basis this POV stems from, it's a valid declaration of your own opinion (and as you correctly point out, one shared by a vast majority worldwide as well).

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Having the 'state' issue a license sanctioning an activity which a great many people believe to be immoral is simply wrong.


I have aproblem with this portion of your statement though:

1. IMO, allowing same sex marriages is not even close to sanctioning these activities statewise. IMO, it's merely an act of equalization, as, since men and women are to be treated equally, regardless of race, ethnic heritage, religion, sexual orientation, age and so forth, it is actually impossible to deny two people of the same sex the right that people of different sexes have. Unless of course you reason along the lines it's justified to deter from the general equal treatment for all human beings on this matter for reasons of majority disagreement.

2. I seriously doubt that the possibility of same sex marriages is in any way considered an endorsement of homosexual activities by the parties involved and affected. I am pretty sure that those whishing for a same sex marriage actually already engaged in said activities BEFORE they decided it to be a good idea to "tie the knot". I seriously doubt anyone currently sporting a heterosexual orientation is going to be swayed in their sexual preferences because they're allowed to marry a same sex partner. There might be those, however, who, because of a more general acceptance of their "alternative lifestyle" might consider displaying their true nature publicly and without fear of being frowned upon.

3. Being married doesn't have the same value in our times anymore as it used to do. That's a sad fact everyone had to recognize in the past years. In my parents' generation, "till death do us part" actually was a vow taken verbatim, whereas nowadays, I can't help but feel the meaning to be "till the next best contender walks up to me". "In good times and bad times" used to have the meaning of sticking with your spouse through whatever fate threw at you and master life's tasks together and by assisting one another. Nowadays I see couples not even surviving the first six months of their union, although it was "I love to till my dying day" just weeks bofore. It is truly sad, that the sacrament of marriage has detiriorated so much in the past one hundered years, that today it is but a shallow phrase and a money maker for laywers.

4. IMO, same sex couples are striving for this sacrament to be awarded to them to manifest their relationship in a way that many opposite sex couples simply seem to have forgotten about. Because if you have to overcome obstacles to achieve your goal, it says something about your inner motivation.

5. But I also know that some same sex couples simply want to be treated equally with regards to tax write-offs and the like. But IMO, that's their right as well, see 1.

6. From a religious point of view, I agree that most scriptures outright ban or at least advise against this kind of behavior. But, since state and religion are two different aspects of our lives (and rightly so), legislation must not be based on religious beliefs, and vice versa.

7. This subject has nothing to do with CA, MA, CT or US legislation alone, it's a topic of discussion in a variety of countries worldwide, so I think this discussion is open to everyone in these forums.
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unicus -Give me a break, I did say, I'm not sure if... Point taken. It also seems the area is full of controversy amongst zoologists as well. I did find & not to argue, but interesting this:

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On the other hand, they could just be enjoying themselves, suggests Paul Vasey, animal behavior professor at the University of Lethbridge, Alberta, Canada. "They're engaging in the behavior because it's gratifying sexually or it's sexually pleasurable," he says. "They just like it. It doesn't have any sort of adaptive payoff."

Matthew Grober, biology professor at Georgia State University, agrees, saying, "If [sex] wasn't fun, we wouldn't have any kids around. So I think that maybe Japanese macaques have taken the fun aspect of sex and really run with it."

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The bonobo, an African ape closely related to humans, has an even bigger sexual appetite. Studies suggest 75 percent of bonobo sex is nonreproductive and that nearly all bonobos are bisexual. Frans de Waal, author of Bonobo: The Forgotten Ape, calls the species a "make love, not war" primate. He believes bonobos use sex to resolve conflicts between individuals.

Other animals appear to go through a homosexual phase before they become fully mature. For instance, male dolphin calves often form temporary sexual partnerships, which scientists believe help to establish lifelong bonds. Such sexual behavior has been documented only relatively recently. Zoologists have been accused of skirting round the subject for fear of stepping into a political minefield.

"There was a lot of hiding of what was going on, I think, because people were maybe afraid that they would get into trouble by talking about it," notes de Waal. Whether it's a good idea or not, it's hard not make comparisons between humans and other animals, especially primates. The fact that homosexuality does, after all, exist in the natural world is bound to be used against people who insist such behavior is unnatural.

In the U.S., in particular, the moral debate over this issue rages on. Many on the religious right regard homosexuality as a sin. And only this month, President Bush vowed to continue his bid to ban gay marriages after the Senate blocked the proposal.

Already, cases of animal homosexuality have been cited in successful court cases brought against states like Texas, where gay sex was, until recently, illegal.

Yet scientists say we should be wary of referring to animals when considering what's acceptable in human society. For instance, infanticide, as practiced by lions and many other animals, isn't something people, gay or straight, generally approve of in humans.

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So how far can we go in using animals to help us understand human homosexuality? Robin Dunbar is a professor of evolutionary psychology at the University of Liverpool, England. "The bottom line is that anything that happens in other primates, and particularly other apes, is likely to have strong evolutionary continuity with what happens in humans," he said.

Dunbar says the bonobo's use of homosexual activity for social bonding is a possible example, adding, "One of the main arguments for human homosexual behavior is that it helps bond male groups together, particularly where a group of individuals are dependent on each other, as they might be in hunting or warfare."

For instance, the Spartans, in ancient Greece, encouraged homosexuality among their elite troops. "They had the not unreasonable belief that individuals would stick by and make all efforts to rescue other individuals if they had a lover relationship," Dunbar added.

Another suggestion is that homosexuality is a developmental phase people go through. He said, "This is similar to the argument of play in young animals to get their brain and muscles to work effectively and together. Off the back of this, there's the possibility you can get individuals locked into this phase for the rest of their lives as a result of the social environment they grow up in."

But he adds that homosexuality doesn't necessarily have to have a function. It could be a spin-off or by-product of something else and in itself carries no evolutionary weight."

He cites sexual gratification, which encourages procreation, as an example. "An organism is designed to maximize its motivational systems," he adds.

In other words, if the urge to have sex is strong enough it may spill over into nonreproductive sex, as suggested by the actions of the bonobos and macaques. However, as Dunbar admits, there's a long way to go before the causes of homosexuality in humans are fully understood.

He said, "Nobody's really investigated this issue thoroughly, because it's so politically sensitive. It's fair to say all possibilities are still open.
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I've already done that -- classfications based on race are clearly prohibited by our constitution and classifcations based on homosexuality are not. Furthermore there are longstanding reasons why marriage as an institution is protected in law (and not easily dissolvable) the care and rearing of children. Homosexual relationships are not capable of producing children and so are different under the law. Most marriage law in this country is designed around protecting the relationship with children. I can produce statements from african-americans denouncing the civil rights comparison between the rights of homosexuals with the rights of blacks that you are trying to make. They state it much better than I can.


Acutally Brian most marriage law is based on money.  Inheritance, divorce, tax, etc... Not children.

We allow sterile people to marry, so that dog won't hunt.

As far as the constitution goes, the 14th ammendment is not ambiguous.

No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.

If heterosexual are entitled to marry, homosexuals deserve the same privledge.  The body of evidence that homosexuality is not a "choice" is now significant so there is no real argument against it IMO.
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You are so offbase and bigoted here it is disturbing.

... but your arrogance and condescension doesn't make your belief system anymore correct than mine.

Your comparisons are offensive and the last recluse of someone with a great deal of hatred in your heart. Whether you can see it or not you have much more in common with those despicable South African apartheid supporters than I do. You seek to prevent me from making my case by repeatedly referring to me in the most disgusting ways possible.

...you are desperate 

Your absolute self-righteous belief in your own moral superiority is very troubling.


Brian



A perfect example how a post shouldn't be. Instead of presenting arguments you are constantly using adjectives that try to discredit your opponent.

Stop that and we can start talking 
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Darxon,

That was one of the best reasoned and most civil posts I have seen on a subject this inflamitory in quite some time.  A green arrow and a raised glass to you my friend!

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It is only legal for same sex couples to marry in California because of a judicial fiat that overturned the already stated will of the people. So your argument is not an accurate one -- the prop 8 vote is designed to put things back the way they were before a group of activist judges changed it.


Not quite true.  The courts did not make same sex marriage legal.  They said that the law, prop 22, was unconstitutional under the Equal Protection Clause of the California State Constitution.  They were correct in their ruling.  That is why prop 8 is a constitutional amendment instead of a law.

I see this going to the US Supreme court as this amendment will put California's Constitution at odds with the Fourteenth Amendment to the US Constitution.
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Draxon - Great job  greenie
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I'm voting a resounding YES because of MY religious beliefs and NOT because of any "party Line".  If anyone can't accept THAT then there's nothing more to be said.

But isn't that imposing your religious beliefs onto others?


Absolutely. The Lord said to love and forgive the sinner, not the sin. I'm just trying to help those that won't help themselves .


I can't see the sinner? Are you someone who thinks that homosexuals choose their sexual orientation - rather than it just being what they are born with?

If it's not a choice then how could they 'help themselves'? If it was a choice then why do we find animals that are homosexual in the wild - are they making a choice as well?
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unicus -Give me a break,
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I don't know what brought this on.  When I said, "Do the research yourself," I didn't mean it in an antagonitic manner.  I simply meant, don't take my word for it. 
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Unicus - I was speaking off the cuff, & your post reminded me, I should have done some fact checking before posting. No harm no foul. I did find the quote quite interesting though, specially the part about the warriors, I had never thought about that.

Rick
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For me, this issue is quite simple.  I believe that homosexual activity is both unnatural and immoral; and I am far from alone.

Having the 'state' issue a license sanctioning an activity which a great many people believe to be immoral is simply wrong.

Please show me any other license that the government issues which promotes an activity that is considered immoral by so many.  The 'state' should remain neutral.

And please don't start throwing the homophobe word around.  I do not hate nor fear any living person.  In fact my brother happens to be gay, and I love him none the less for it.  I do however, fear for his immortal soul!


I am just spit balling for fun Hal.  Many people find Pornography immoral and wrong, I am not one of them.  However, in AZ nude dancers and porn stars who wish to work must carry an adult entertainment license.  Tucson attempted to pass the same law for topless dancers but it was defeated.  This means the state of AZ is sanctioning pornography.


Or hunting or selling alcohol.  Both of which many have opposition to.


Good point Snak, have a green on me.
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